Monday, December 20, 2010

the sources of that remark

Those of you who were saying I was making death threats to kids, I am going to clear the air with that one. The statement was based off an article I read on another website about bullying leading into a school shooting or suicide. The article that the statement that was based on was taken from this article. I've been researching about the causes of school shootings since coming back from Iowa 11 years ago.
     The comment was actually rooted in facts that take place in the states about school shootings because usually the person who does the shooting is the one who goes pulling the trigger. I was being bullied by another magazine publisher via facebook.com and some on ning.com because she chases me forum to forum like I am some kind of canned hunt. So that was why I made the statement I made because kids inherit the habit of bullying from their parents.
     I've seeb the claims that the mother of my son claims that I was bullying her outright, well no, she has a history of doing mental abuse. I was punched in the chest by her because I made the catty screech that cats make when they were pissed. We were in an argument that was rather one sided. I would actually make the remark about some adult bullies who saw their kids for the same thing then reward them a damned Play Station for they're bullying.
     Here's another thing I found that backed up my statement, and they say name one's sources so I am doing to do just that here -- by sending the reader here and something I found on a typepad blog here (the latter actually did a study on this.) Here's another example about the example of bullying leads to murder taken from ohio.com. What I said of Cox was based on facts because this happened before in the states where two kids actually murdered their bully.

farewell to wordpress.com

The blog hosted by wordpress.com will be closed on the 21st because of the ongoing conflict with The Rusty Nail and I am guessing they also closed her down too. But they told me if I wanted to have a wordpress based blog I can get one with a registered domain. I am seriously considering that because when it's hosted on an actual site, there is more people can say without getting in hot water about it.
     All the articles I wrote on that blog aren't lost though. In fact, I got them all backed up in a book I am going to be putting out some time in 2011 named for one of the articles. I have a new one written and shopping it around and this actually doesn't mention names. I am going to talk to my long time friends about doing a group blog on InsaneJournal.com too because they have a high tolerance for content too. Wordpress.com normally have a high tolerance for content, but the thing between myself and The Rusty Nail became too much for them.
     Also I had a bout of absent minded-ness this morning when I let the dog out. I dosed off and she was out for about 25 minutes. I made an honest mistake there. I always had a history of being absent minded, I was this absent minded since I was a kid. With Wordpress I was wondering if they were as tired of the back and forth as I was. I will be celebrating 9 years with blogspot.com, but just in the recent years I've been using them as my official blog. Blogspot has a higher tolerance for content but I wish they had the cut tag. I am guessing if when that one blog started working with the ex-cousin-in-law caused it to come ahead.
     I am talking to a group of friends I've known for a long time about doing a group blog on Blurty.com because they have the updating tool much like LiveJournal.com uses. I've been with Blurty.com for seven years too. I got them before going off to Baltimore, Maryland. I retained all the graphics I created from when I've been with wordpress, and also plan to upload the graphic I used for my anthology submission call that has a $5.00 reading fee because other creative nonfiction publications also have this. Some of them change $45.00 for the reading fee Spinelingelers.co.uk has a $5 reading fee before submitting out too.